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• Self Aware

January 28, 2009
• Maybe what women want is sex journalism that doesn't suck.

January 26, 2009
• Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15

January 27, 2009
• Ask Yourself This….

January 26, 2009
• Pleasurists #13 | Pleasurists

January 28, 2009
• U.K. Extreme Porn Law in Effect – Sort Of

January 27, 2009
• What if O stands for “Overwhelming body hatred”? (Reflections on the January cover of O: The Oprah Magazine)

January 27, 2009

• Sexual perversity in America

January 27, 2009
• Another Challenged Assumption: Feminist Consideration of Men's Bodies

January 27, 2009
• Coat

January 26, 2009
• If You're Going to Quote Me, Get Your Shit Straight

January 26, 2009
• Ask the Assbandit

January 26, 2009
• Google should learn the difference between real sex and spam | Technology | The Guardian

January 26, 2009
• Barack and Michelle – fisters?

January 23, 2009

I’ve identified as poly for awhile but never had much occasion to discuss it with friends and loved ones since I haven’t gotten serious about a secondary partner in the past. Now I find myself with two secondary partners that I’m deeply in love with. So, I’ve been coming out about this aspect of myself whenever it happens to come up in conversation. Recently I was speaking to an old friend from high school and had this amusing exchange:

Tom: so tell me about the new relationship!

Ellie: I have a spare boyfriend and a girlfriend now.

Tom: what is a spare boyfriend

Ellie: just like a regular one but additional

• What if you could buy social justice? (Part 9: Think Pink: Cancer Profiteering)

January 14, 2009
• Target Women: Jewelry

  “That’s right, Dad. Your…


December 18, 2008
• spreadmagazine:

  This woman is ridiculously beautiful. She…


December 22, 2008
• therealkatiewest:

  Come On Over on Vimeo (via Vimeo)
  i am in…


January 11, 2009
• A dude with glitter in his beard

January 13, 2009
• Sex Games Beyond Strip Poker

January 13, 2009
• Poly/Relationship Mapping Workshop in SF, Jan 16th

January 13, 2009
• On Breakups and Poly

December 18, 2008
• Size & Sexuality

December 24, 2008
• Sex and Intimacy Project – Part 11

January 4, 2009
• "Why Are Gay Marriage Advocates Not Defending Polyamory?"

January 6, 2009
• If Jewelry Commercials Annoy You, This Is The Video To Watch [Badvertising]

December 19, 2008
• Safe! (Yes, we’ve got a video!)

December 12, 2008
• ‘Rom Coms’ Can Ruin Your Love Life, Sound a Lot Dirtier Than They Are

December 16, 2008
• Shave the Date

December 16, 2008
• “I’m kind of … insatiable.”

December 15, 2008
• By Your Side, by Clayton Cubitt. “Long portrait of a…

December 15, 2008
• Big is Beautiful

December 9, 2008
• Today in WTF: Planned Parenthood Gift Certificates

December 3, 2008
• Call for Submissions: Whore Lover

December 3, 2008

I will be appearing tonight (January 21, 2009) at 10:30 PM Eastern time on the Passion talk show with Dr. Laurie Betito. The program is on a Montreal news talk station, CJAD. You can stream the broadcast and listen in! I’ll be talking about phone sex and other tidbits about life and sexuality. Try to tune in!

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #156? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

I’m kind of … insatiable.

“She’s gasping already. Each breath a moan, each touch connected to the noises she makes.”

The most spankable day of the year

“And for spankos, they are a high holy day to be approached with all the reverence and gaiety of a Pagan-cum Christian holiday.”

Private club

“It’s that kind of club – the kind you have to know about, the kind that doesn’t even have a name.”

Sugasm Editor

Sex Work And Honesty: Being Childfree

Editor’s Choice

I Wonder

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Jay and I will be visiting New York this week. Starting today, actually. The agenda for the trip is to have fun and hang out with perverts. If you are a fun pervert, be in touch. I know that I will be at Druken, Careening Writers and In the Flesh at various times on Thursday night. Stop by and say hello. If you need me between now and then, email (lumpesse AT gmail DOT com) and Twitter seem to be your best options. I’ll be staying connected.

Sometimes things go missing on my computer for awhile and I unearth them. This picture is an example of that, I really need a better filing system: