“Why would you be foolish/arrogant enough to assume that sex work is so extraordinarily unskilled and accessible that you just hop right into it and do a good job? Anyone can make money with sex work, but it doesn’t follow that everyone who performs sex work is good at it.”
“If a solid and safe BDSM group or community casts us out simply because of our age, we will turn elsewhere. Unfortunately, elsewhere usually ends up being the dangerous choice.”
“‘You’re a whore, whores don’t love ANYONE, and you never loved ME.’ His slapdash logic nonetheless cut deep. After a year of foreplay and pillow talk, hard core fucking and excruciating honesty, all our love had been reduced to a single tautological falsity.
“I’m not crazy about a penis in my mouth. Honestly, I’m not. I’m not adverse to it, either. (Well, sometimes.) It’s just not one of those things for me.”
“Of course, I usually split the check, which I’m sure is unthinkable to Cosmo, because then it’s like I’m having sex with him for free or something, jeez.”
“there are others that have a tendency to take things to extreme levels; they have pathological traits away from the Internet, and when they go online, it mutates to something more sinister.”
“It isn’t exactly naked skin, so half-nekkid might be a little bit of a stretch, but sometimes clothes can make me more naked than nakedness ever could.”
“One area of interest is how men view feminism or how they define it in today’s terms, especially when divisions exist, and there are divisions among many social/religions groups.”
“Include in your scenario outline the characters (who is doing the fucking), the setting (where are we fucking), and the plot (who does what to whom).”
Ellie Lumpesse writes about sex, BDSM, relationships, non-monogamy, feminism, and rhetoric. In addition to blogging, she produces the Bedroom Radio sex podcast, is a phone slut for hire, and reviews sex toys.
This is the last time you will see her talk about herself in the third person.