The best of the blogs by the bloggers who blog them, this week starting with the letter ‘V’.

• Virgins. (domequeen.blogspot.com…)
• A Conversation? (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com…)
• Anal Cream Pie to go (theholidaylife.blogspot.com…)
• A Night Off! (whatsyourpleasure.blogspot.com…)
• Anita Dark (sugarbank.com…)
• BadAss Valentines Day Sale + Free Shipping on Paddles & Floggers (tirepaddle.com…)
• CockBlogging Wednesday 14 / Reader Question (shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com…)
• Disrobics (sugarpit.com…)
• Furniture babes (sexblo.gs)
• His name was Levi (whatsexmaycome.blogspot.com…)
• How it might continue… (emergingontheotherside.blogspot.com…)
• I. Cloud City (nakedloftparty.com…)
• Indecent Exposure? (deltaofvenus.blogspot.com…
• I Want (swelteringcelt.com…)
• I was like this… (damnjezebel.com…)
• Jane’s first time wasn’t with Dick. (janeluvsdick.com…)
• KITKAST 1.13 – AVN 2/2, French Maid TV and Colombian Condom Laws (kitkast.com…)
• Leashed (talkingdirty.blogspot.com…)
• Marion, Lea and Dianne orgy Sapphic Erotica (simply-sapphicerotica.com…)
• New Featured Gallery (seska4lovers.com…)
• …more Sugasm #19

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“You’re only about 40 percent like yourself in your blog.”

J observed this from across the table at my favorite pizza place. We were quietly scarfing antipasto salad, betraying the fact that we have learned to eat in silence in front of each other.

“What is the other 60 percent like?”

“Someone else.”

Both C and J know about this blog, C is indifferent and mildly hostile towards it – for that reason he chooses not to read. J has known about it since before our first date although as far as he tells me, he still hasn’t read the entire thing.

He drove home a point that I have known for a long time. This is all just a blurry snapshot of who I am. If you think you have Ellie in focus, think again. If you think you have J or C in focus, well that is just absurd. Certain days when I am having sex, I lose track of who I am but I think that is the best gift a lover can give me. The drive to destabilize myself before helping to put me back together again.

Two nights ago I found myself blindfolded on my bed, my thighs spread and wrists tied to each leg. Rope forming lattices and criss-crosses around my torso and breasts. From the foot of the bed I hear J’s voice above me.

“God, you look so beautiful.”

It has always been a hard thing to believe. C can say it and have me stomach the compliment 100 percent of the time. I’ve long since given up questioning his sincerity. J can convince me about 50 percent of the time. Nothing changes in him or the way he says it from moment to moment – it will come as I get to know him better and trust myself to be beautiful to him.

J is running something against my thighs. An ice cube? No, it isn’t wet. He brushes it against my exposed pussy for a brief moment and then I feel him shift over me and sense him near my face.

“Open,” he commands.

I open my lips hesitantly.

“Wider.”

I drop my jaw further, lips sliding over teeth, tongue presented delicately against the bottom of my mouth.

“Bite.”

I bite into. . . a sweet, ripe pear. I chew the tiny bite slowly and he leans towards me to kiss the juices from my lips.

I feel beautiful again without him saying anything at all.

It is with this fanfare and caveat that I announce the arrival of J’s blog, Eternal Apprentice. When he told me he was going to do it, I was intrigued. When he actually started posting, I was thrilled. Looking at our experiences from his perspective was enlightening. I’d say that he is about 40 percent like himself as well. I hope you will head over to his little corner of the sexblog land and let him know what you think. His blogroll is woefully deficient and while I could have recommended many great places to start, J is capable of making his own friends. He is dear to me and I hope he becomes dear to all of you as well.

The best of the blogs by the bloggers who blog them (this week starting with the letter ‘S’):

• Sex Type Thing (chaosnoir.blogspot.com)
• Six Girls Skinny-dipping on Abby Winters (iloveabbeywinters.com)
• Coach T…..Chapter Two (whatsexmaycome.blogspot.com)
• Sometimes You Just Miss Having A Penis (berkeleybiboy.blogspot.com)
• Strapping One On? (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
• Tangled up (lumpesse.com)
• The Listening Brief (gentlygently.blogspot.com)
• True Secret: A Night With A Star (secretbrain.blogspot.com)
• Vixen, In All Her Sultry, Devilish, Glory (tirepaddle.com)
• Brett and Hiromi interview themselves (sexblo.gs)
• Hot teen lesbian sex on Sapphic Erotica (simply-sapphicerotica.com)
• Condom Conversation… (shayssexcolumn)
• Cherished (ambientstorm.blogspot.com)
• Dante’s Guide to Cybersex–Part II: Descriptive Writing (damneddante.blogspot.com)
• Darkness (nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
• Exactly where I want you… (emergingontheotherside.blogspot.com)
• Expectations (swelteringcelt.com)
• Father Knows Best (theholidaylife.blogspot.com)
• Fucking Wifey To Make Me Jealous (radicalvixen.com)
• How do you jack-off? (whatsyourpleasure.blogspot.com)
• Join the Sugasm?
• More of Sugasm #18 here…

The best of the blogs by the bloggers who blog them (this week starting with the letter E.)

The best of the blogs by the bloggers who blog them. This week starting with the letter ‘T’.

• Things That Make Me Go MMMmmm… (temptation-unleashed.blogspot.com)
• The Personal Touch… (shaysexcolumn.blogspot.com)
• Unrecovered memories (realadultsex.com)
• What do you taste like? (lumpesse.com)
• An Ass Licking (sexinga.blogspot.com)
• Airport (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)
• Caveat Anal (mzemily.vixenblogs.com)
• Condom statue angers Catholics (sexblo.gs)
• Dumped by a Client (radicalvixen.com)
• Forgiveness (nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
• Fun to be Bound, Bound to be Fun – ‘Seduction’ (chaosnoir.blogspot.com)
• I’m proud… (pornster.blogspot.com)
• In need (mnsss.blogspot.com)
• In the Beginning (deliacd.com)
• London Calling (theholidaylife.blogspot.com)
• Moonlight and Fucking (tastytrixie.com)
• Not Picky About Porn (damnjezebel.com)
• Podnography #17 – Coed strippers, Wikipedia and Katie’s big O (podnography.com)
• Reach Out and Touch Someone (anyonesgirl.blogspot.com)
• Should I? (whatsexmaycome.blogspot.com)
• Smooth as a… (cherryboudoir.com)
• StoryTime: coming to work (secretbrain.blogspot.com)

Where have I been, dear readers? Well, I got my tongue pierced on Thursday so I’ve been sort of under the weather while I wait for the swelling to go down (at which time I’ll take a picture, natch). Podcasting has been out of the question but I expect to catch up with that soon. I’ve got a list of short tidbits, though, and it goes a little something like this:

* I just discovered Balthazar B, Man of His Words. This man seems quite brilliant and sexy and wonderful and not updating for the past few weeks. I hope he comes back because finding a hot new blog that is already a dead old blog is so depressing. . .

* A bit of a dialogue has formed between Melissa Gira (aka, Sexiest Podcaster in the World) and I on this question of “fake women.” Touch My Blog has stepped into the discussion with this post. And while not directly related, I think that the Female Mysogynist is weighing in on the issue as well when she writes today about the “anti-feminine feminist bitch”.

* I’ve been desperately searching for Chanukah porn and the best I have been able to find (despite the hysterics of this article) is at the Yarmulkebra Website. Looks like I’ll be making my own, I can’t believe no one has tried to serve this market before!

An Appetite Ruined, But Not Mine (radicalvixen.com)

Answering His Call (nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)

Bedroom Radio Episode #9 (bedroomradio.blogspot.com)

Birthday Sex? (swelteringcelt.com)

Blood, Sex & The Open Road (tirepaddle.com)

Cockblogging Wednesday 8 (shaysexcolumn.blogspot.com)

Collar: in training (livejournal.com/users/nicebluejournal)

Daddy’s Little Girl… (mimredbeard.com)

Ding Ring Ohhh (unfetteredcravings.blogspot.com)

Fantasy – Pain & Pleasure – Part II (lionetteslair.blogspot.com)

First Date (anyonesgirl.blogspot.com)

Good News Everyone!!! (corinthiancouple.blogspot.com)

Gushing (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)

House Rules (theholidaylife.blogspot.com)

I wouldn’t mind if she was 80-something… (pornster.blogspot.com)

One tequila, two tequila, three tequila, floor… (whatsyourpleasure.blogspot.com)

Porn Problems for Ozzie and Harriet (seska4lovers.com)

Real Bikers Love “Die Fledermaus” (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com)

Squirt For Me (sexinga.blogspot.com)

Technorati, Sex Bloggers Don’t Tag (sugarbank.com)

Why, Yes, iMasturbate (sexerati.com)

SugarBank: Bloggasm #11
Another packed bloggasm, I hear that this thing’s really starting to draw some attention. Thanks for the referrals, the more bloggers join in, the better it works. This weeks picks are:

A Vampire Eats Out (whatsyourpleasure.blogspot.com)

Another Day of Hard Work in Phone Sex (talkingdirty.blogspot.com)

Bedroom Radio Episode #8 – Under the Covers (bedroomradio.blogspot.com)

Behaviour and Fulfilled Fantasies (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com)

Better late than never (darkershadeofme.blogspot.com)

“Can’t I at least see them!?” (shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)

Edges – Part II – A Story of Rape, Complicity and Consent (nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)

For M (anyonesgirl.blogspot.com)

Harder (lumpesse.com)

I’ve Got A Few Other Ideas As Well (tirepaddle.com)

Karly and the True Pro – by Joe (karlyjoe.blogspot.com)

Mister Interviews Mister (sexblo.gs)

My heart belongs to Daddy… (mimredbeard.com)

Punishment (sexinga.blogspot.com)

The Swag has Landed (sugarbank.com)

The Second Coming of Jesus (theholidaylife.blogspot.com)

The Sounds of Cumming (radicalvixen.com)

Trying Out the New Vibe (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com)

World AIDS Day & Condoms (seska4lovers.com)

Would you kiss or lick me better? (deltaofvenus.blogspot.com)