Comments on: Dirty Laundry http://www.lumpesse.com/2009/03/dirty-laundry/ Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:50:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Ang http://www.lumpesse.com/2009/03/dirty-laundry/comment-page-1/#comment-20973 Ang Fri, 20 Mar 2009 06:35:09 +0000 http://www.lumpesse.com/?p=648#comment-20973 Oh yeah, there are those moments too. I haven't hidden any of them on my blog - you know that. I think what I haven't shared enough of is the happy times, the laughter that bubbles over and the fun we have messing with peoples' heads - especially when if we didn't we'd have nervous breakdowns over the stress. In monogamy, the learning process is hard enough. In poly, suddenly you've got so many more dynamics. In a quad, there is the quad, four triads, and six dyads. Not every single one of these is a direct relationship but each IS a relationship. I have high hopes for your relationship, as I see many similarities to my own in it. We have thought all hope was lost more than once, but we have emerged from those times with more knowledge and strength than before. I see you doing the same. Oh yeah, there are those moments too. I haven’t hidden any of them on my blog – you know that. I think what I haven’t shared enough of is the happy times, the laughter that bubbles over and the fun we have messing with peoples’ heads – especially when if we didn’t we’d have nervous breakdowns over the stress.

In monogamy, the learning process is hard enough. In poly, suddenly you’ve got so many more dynamics. In a quad, there is the quad, four triads, and six dyads. Not every single one of these is a direct relationship but each IS a relationship.

I have high hopes for your relationship, as I see many similarities to my own in it. We have thought all hope was lost more than once, but we have emerged from those times with more knowledge and strength than before. I see you doing the same.

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