Alright, anyone that has talked to me in the last week knows that I’m pretty damn excited about Sex 2.0. First of all, I get to finally meet people that I’ve talked to online/admired from afar for ages. I also get to share some tips on phone sex and being an online sex worker. And, I get to have an action-packed sort of weekend that should include such events as pole dancing, strip clubs, a swingers/fetish ball, and cupcake bingo. Sleep is really over-rated.

Because this event is oh so 2.0 I have succumbed to Twitter (look to your right) and I will also be liveblogging the conference itself. Basically, you’ll know more than you need to know about what is going on with me for the next few days.

Oh, and here is the description for my session on Saturday afternoon in case you were wondering about it:

Becoming a Sex Worker Without Leaving Your House: How the Internet Has Brought Phone Sex to the 21st Century

Think that phone sex went out of style with hair metal? Well all things old are new again on the internet and this session will discuss the nuts and bolts of the phone sex world both professional and recreational. We’ll discuss:

* How to land a job as a phone sex operator or start marketing your own phone sex business.
* Where phone sex operators fit in among the world of sex bloggers, educators, and workers.
* And, most importantly, how to give good phone sex and be a considerate phone sex partner – for fun and profit!

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I have been reading a book that was sent to me for review recently. Like many things that I read, I dip into it in stops and starts between classes. Except this book is pretty naughty and has naked lovers on the cover. Needless to say, I’ve been spending a lot of time feeling naughty and worrying about getting caught. Doesn’t that make things better. When I finish the book, I’ll have to compare the experience of sneaking glances before my students shuffle into the room with climbing into bed with it the rest of this rainy afternoon. My bed might be a more socially acceptable place to read erotica but what it lacks in daring it makes up for in ready access to sex toys.

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She Told Me
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Fantasy: If you can’t stand the heat…
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Sugarbutch Star: Bad Bad Girl
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Mr. Sugasm Himself
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My Wife is a Skank! pt2
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TMI Tuesday #105 (Dating Edition)
Top Ten Songs to Do It To

What To Do With Cum (Part 2)

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Ron Harris Studio’s Latest Erotic Photo and Video

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Encounter 1, Part II: Disaster Averted
Find ‘em, Fuck ‘em and Flee
Honey I’m home.
How I Love The Fall
I need you, now

My Afternoon with Alejandro
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Sacred & Profane
Sex Tourism
Vignettes of a Cuckoldress

About this time last year I took a trip to New York. It was fun and I had a nice adventure but I got so busy that I never said more than this about it. A pity that I never finished that thought. To answer the riddle, Shortbus was awesome and Billy’s was not (I’ve made much better cupcakes at home). That leaves Jefferson – holy.fucking.hell. You know, you read about someone’s life – and he is a really excellent writer – and you figure it can’t be anything like what they say it is. Now, I only got a glimpse into a few hours of Jefferson’s life but it was weirdly exactly as he describes it. He actually is that fucking confident and sexy and interesting. Oh, and really brilliant in bed.

I never wrote about this before because I thought so much time had passed that it was too late to bother making the entry. But, as Jefferson mentioned in an email this morning, it is never too late. And he wrote about our fun just a few weeks ago.

I’m not going to rehash what he already described very well. In fact I’ll give you a tidbit to entice you:

Given what they had told me, I intended to focus on Brian at first. I wanted to differentiate myself from the run-of-the-mill men who were fine with letting Brian blow them if that was the price for fucking Elle. I was not one of those bisexuals, not at all. I wanted them to feel I was in this for both of them.

“Fuck,” I groaned, taking my face from Elle’s. “God, look at him. He’s devouring me.”

Elle rested a hand on my chest. “He’s so fucking hot,” she repeated, her voice raspy. Brian looked up to her eyes, gurgling his response into my cock. His drool collected on my body.

I closed my eyes and let my head fall back. My body was theirs.

Elle ran her hands down my torso, bringing her lips to my nipples. I twitched as the ran her tongue along my skin, her movements as soft as her boyfriend’s were urgent. I curled and bucked as she found her way to my belly.

I sat up, taking Brian’s head in my hand. “Brian, man, you’re so great. But now I need to get my dick in your girlfriend.”

Go read the rest and then come back here, okay? So, yeah, I got to experience a true New York monument. Later that afternoon, we had an awesome meal at Katz’s and I got to show Jay (Brian) Central Park.

The next morning I woke up with a souvenir that perhaps Jefferson didn’t know he was leaving. He left out the part of the story where he tortured my nipples and bit my thighs until I was screaming. I got to enjoy the sight of little purple bruises on my thighs for several weeks afterward. You can’t put a memento like that on the mantle but if sure as fuck beats a snow globe.

(And speaking of travel, if any of you live in Thailand, Malaysia, or Singapore, the Ellie and Jay bisexual fucking road show extravaganza is going to acquire some international flair this December and January!)

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Animal sex
“As he brings me there, his hands and mouth on me are rougher and rougher.”

Romeo and Juliet: A Different Perspective
“Catherine!” Elizabeth gasped between her thighs. “You are like heaven’s own scent.”

Summer of Content
“Under the cover of my long skirt, my legs are spread for him, and I’m dripping over his fingers.”

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How to Hide Your Porn

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Catalina loves Candles (HNT)
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Heteroflexible
I came for you
I feel like…… cheating
A Night of DP
Sat Night Swing Club
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Shadows
Someone else’s wife

Wicked Man

Sex History & Poetry
My Protector
Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Forum

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Autumn

If you give a Dom an hour……
Kenny
A Little Surprise
Marcus and Me – Redux
Mundane Moment #1
Pretty Girls Peeing Outdoors (Urophilia, Pee Fetish)
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Applause for Blogs Begun in October 2007
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Truth or fiction?

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Alike, Not Alike, Identical

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Housewife fantasies and domestic dirtiness
I’m a biter.
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Do you want me…?
“The shiver that runs through you tells me everything I need to know.”

Love that ass (his perspective)
“But as long as we are in here, she submits to my command; to my every whim.”

Hubb and Spoeker
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The next colonel sanders or orville redenbacher
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What Is Mary Hiding?
Why “Sugasm” Matters

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La Petite Mort
Sex Work And Religion: The Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy

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Back To School
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The Dungeon: Sex Camp, Night One
Fuck of a Lifetime
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I Got Your Number
Manhandled
Mira
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A Nawty Story: Diane Phones Home
Objets d’obsession: neck corsets
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Piss Slut
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Erotic Writing and Experiences
100 Sexy
An Affair with the Wind
Corseting Mrs. Russian
Burlesque: Home Coming
Gamahuche
I Succumb to Jefferson’s Dastardly Lesbian Plot!

More Than A Breast-Fondle
The Morning Rollover
Party Blowjob – Part 3

I can never resist the opportunity to quote Meat Loaf.

Jay and I had a lot of fun in New York this past weekend. There were three particular things that I planned to do and accomplished:

1) Get cupcakes from Billy’s Bakery
2) See Shortbus
3) Meet Jefferson

Two of those things left me quite pleased. One of those things was dissapointing. More tomorrow, but you can toss out guesses for the moment.

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“Would he have the energy, the stamina, to make me come as much as I need to come?”

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The Rum Raisin Compromise (http://talktovanessa.com)
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