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Many of my friends and acquaintances in New York are launching a new project, The NYC Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar.

This project benefits Audacia Ray’s Sex Work Awareness Project, a very worthy cause. The people included are some of NYC’s best sex-positive writers, educators, and film makers and the calendar promises to be something special. Who are the models?

• Audacia Ray


• Desiree


• Diva


• Elizabeth Wood


• Jamye Waxman


• Lux Alptraum


• Mariella


• Rachel Kramer Bussel


• Riese


• Sinclair Sexsmith


• Tess Danesi


• Twanna A Hines

So, take a look at the project and consider ordering a calendar or a specially inscribed calendar day!

• I can’t believe how exhausted I still am after 10 hours of sleep. Holy crap I have a lot of email. #


• Google Reader just says 1000+. . . Thinking I should just mark all read and move on with my life. #


• Adding camp people to my Google Reader account. Reid Mihalko. . . so fucking dreamy ;) #


• I am completely useless. I have so many sex toys to get reviews out for. Tried some at camp ;) #


• I like that every time I look at the sunburn on my boobs I think of the fun I had in the pool this weekend. That was lovely. #


• And I have to say that sunburned nipples are not as bad as they sound. I have more sensitivity and they are hard all the time. #


• @scarletlotus Thanks babe. Yes, just slightly owie. My tan is fabulous – I was so naughty about not wearing sunblock but I don’t burn badly. #


• @amberlrhea Wow, seriously? Why? #


• @HisButterfly I just need a volunteer to lick them and blow cool air on them. #


• @writingdirty Nice! I hear there are some pretty beaches to photograph in the South ;) #

• @eternal42 won one of the vibes donated by @edenfantasys . Friskiest pet! #


• On the way home from camp and making a long toy wishlist! #

• Just finished a fun sensation scene that I co-topped with Jay. Later I am working in the "brothel". #


• The brothel was amazing. I can’t believe how much it was like phone calls with clients. #


• Spent much of the day so far lounging in the pool. Looking forward to Lolita’s class on ageplay in a bit. #

These posts are an experiment in time travel. I wrote them and scheduled them ahead of time. But, I should still have access to comments and Twitter messages. This is the last of these posts as we’ll be driving home on Monday and hopefully you’ll hear from me by Tuesday.

Today is the last day of camp activities and it promises to be a full one.  I’ll be attending classes on flogging among some other topics related to pain.

I’m starting to realize that I like thuddy pain more than stingy pain but I still want to learn how to use a flogger. What kind of pain works for you?

In honor of ouch, here are some of my favorite posts about erotic pain (more specifically, spanking):

Thoughts On Spanking

A Reluctant Spanking

• Evening included chore duty and a knife scene. There was a cherry! Tommorrow Jay and I are getting mummified together. #


• Just watched a game of butt plug ring toss. Today is beautiful, I hope that the weather holds. #

These posts are an experiment in time travel. I wrote them and scheduled them ahead of time. But, I should still have access to comments and Twitter messages.

One of the big opportunities of camp are the huge parties that promote sexual expression and group interraction. Basically, I am hoping for an orgy today and I think it just might happen.

So, tell me about  your favorite group sex experiences. Were they good? Bad? Still just fantasies?

After that, how about reading some of my old posts on group sex. Here are a few favorites:

Threesomes Don’t Have to Suck

I Don’t Write Porn, I Just Do It

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #147? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Nipple clamps, butt plug, Hitachi – oh my!

“Once the plug is in, I’m going to send you on a little walk.”

I discover transcendental orgasm

“It was peaceful, and like holding on to a live wire at the same time.”

When We Were Kids: Thoughts on BDSM

“The tying was always my favourite part, whether I was the one tied who had to escape, or the one who got to do the tying.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

Like a Prayer – Part 2

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

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